Don’t Give Me What I Want

16/10/2011

Among animals, a remarkable gesture of interest wins a mate. In humans, our most useful allure is resistance.

Fury Cannot Touch Me

02/10/2011

Detaching myself from my son’s marital problems let me find joy in the time I spend with my granddaughter.

To Keep but Not Be Kept

04/09/2011

In Shanghai, my boyfriend, a white American, looked like just another foreigner taking home an Asian woman — me — like a souvenir.

My Husband Is Now My Wife

18/08/2011

He took the first step in becoming a woman: surgery to help his face look more feminine.