We Should Dance While We Can

28/11/2010

In our wedding vows, we didn’t actually say for better or for worse, or discuss what we’d do when better became worse.

Alone When the Bedbugs Bite

18/11/2010

The worst thing about bedbugs isn’t the bugs themselves, or even the painful bites. It’s the isolating way others react when you give them the news.

Breathe In, Breathe Out, Fall in Love

04/11/2010

Falling in love with someone in the meditation room happens so often that some Buddhists have a name for it: the Vipassana Romance (V.R., for short).

Keeping Them Company at the End

31/10/2010

While waiting for the doctor, we kept his body company with stories of the life-cycle events of a long marriage.

Gifts for the Broken-Hearted

17/10/2010

He was 13 years my junior, and I worried that maybe I shouldn’t be playing this game with a heart that would never quite heal.

Tunneling to the Core of Family

26/09/2010

A mother of a gravely ill toddler learns that parental love is layered on, with each layer a shield of denial.