What Might Have Been

19/02/2012

My troubled mother gave me up. My adoptive parents fought hard to get me. I was an adult before I learned how lucky I had been.

Plunging Ahead to Poke the Bear

29/01/2012

I’d spent the past couple of years applying myself to my marriage — thinking about marriage, reading about marriage, and trying forms of couples’ therapy.

Watching Them Watching Me

22/01/2012

The death of a spouse rewrites the rules of a family in ways I never could have imagined.

Exit Left, Wordlessly

15/01/2012

My boyfriend and I spent a happy Christmas together, and then he disappeared, without a word.

A Place to Lay My Heart

08/01/2012

Travel offered freedom and meant never having to commit to just one thing, or to one person.

A Forgotten Prayer, Answered

01/01/2012

Inviting a child to enter our lives: would he accept? That is the question asked over and over at a fertility temple in Bhutan.

Taking a Step Forward

18/12/2011

During marital difficulties, a couple turns to dancing — and rhythm — to get back in sync.