Fury Cannot Touch Me

02/10/2011

Detaching myself from my son’s marital problems let me find joy in the time I spend with my granddaughter.

To Keep but Not Be Kept

04/09/2011

In Shanghai, my boyfriend, a white American, looked like just another foreigner taking home an Asian woman — me — like a souvenir.

My Husband Is Now My Wife

18/08/2011

He took the first step in becoming a woman: surgery to help his face look more feminine.

An Ex Blogs. Is it O.K. to Watch?

07/08/2011

I felt kind of sick to my stomach, as if I had climbed through his bedroom window and stolen his journal from his dresser drawer.

A Lost Child, but Not Mine

28/07/2011

On the third anniversary of my abortion, I found out via MySpace that my ex-boyfriend was having a baby with another woman. I felt a sense of ownership, of responsibility for the child’s well-being.